I'm not getting anything for my husband for father's day. Is that weird, does it make me a bad wife?
I always told him if I was pregnant on Mother's Day he had better celebrate it/ME! I expected flowers and a card at least. But to me, Mother's Day for a mom-to-be is different than Father's Day for dads-to-be... I'd explain why it's different, but I don't want to and I figure most of you will get what I'm saying anyhow. (exceptions taken for MF infertility, which was not the case here)
IMO, he may technically be a father, but at this fragile state, nothing is solid enough to justify celebrating "Dad Status" just yet.
And acknowledging it may be a little like calling your great aunt and telling her you're pregnant before the pee stick has even dried. It just seems too soon.
I've told him I wasn't doing anything, I think he might have been a little dissappointed. Oh well, I seriously just don't want to mark it right now with anything more than words.